kerryrenaissance:

swolerbear:

latining:

pom-seedss:

swolerbear:

I feel like a lot of this bullshit about “well maybe if a woman HAD dated [an incel] he wouldn’t have been so angry and violent” because it’s absolute victim blaming. They really think so little of women that they give credence this falsehood that these shitstains believe about their entitlement to women

Because make no mistake these are angry, violent men. If they weren’t angry and violent about women, they would be angry and violent about something else.

And if a woman HAD dated one of them, they would have likely been angry and violent towards her, and we would ask how she could be so “stupid” as to not recognize he was violent and stayed away

“If only women would date these violent men there wouldn’t be so much violence!” – Society

“Why do women stay in abusive relationships? Geez, if your partner is violent just leave!” – Also Society

There is genuinely no way to win with Society like this. 

They don’t see women as people, merely objects handed to men as a reward.

Which is exactly how incels see women.

Incels are 100% a product of our society

And I think it’s unlikely that all these incels never ever dated anyone.

I think it’s more probable that when they did date someone, it didn’t work out — as relationships often do — and it embitters them. Perhaps at some point they quit trying. Then they place the fault onto the women, because that makes the narrative more tolerable to them. (As my ex did/does).

And I think someone else in my feed at some point also pointed out, it’s entirely possible they can get laid or dated. Just not by the specific women they desire. Which, well, is part of life and relationships having. A mature adult accepts this and moves on. (IMHO,ofc). You don’t go making movements out of it and killing people.