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animeshaming:

skinoutqueen:

Here’s some hard to swallow pills that’ll probably make people upset but is 100% the truth and idc.

You do not have to stay in a relationship with a mentally ill person if it becomes too much for you to handle. You are not their saviour, that’s not your responsibility to save them.

Any person who uses their mental instability to control you staying is a shitty person. IE “if you leave me I swear to god I’ll kill myself”, still not your responsibility, LEAVE.

Even if they are not using it to control or manipulate you and aren’t a shitty person, it’s still okay to leave. If a relationship is unfulfilling to you, for whatever reason, you don’t have to be in that relationship. If your partner’s mental illness affects their behaviour in a way that negatively impacts your relationship and makes you unhappy, even if it isn’t malicious, it’s okay to end the relationship. You’re not obligated to sacrifice your own happiness because someone else has issues.

The same goes for friendships.