Girls get made fun of for everything might as well do what you want lol
not to be dramatic but this mentality literally freed me
In high school I realized this and it broke my brain a little, but it was very freeing. I realized I would never do anything right in the eyes of everyone else. So if none of them could be happy, at least I could have fun.
I realize this broke all my female training, made me louder, less compliant, less likely to take the blame for men, less likely to apologize, and that all of that means there are many angry men crying in my wake because I didn’t fit the servile image they’d been taught to consume. But I did meet a better class of men who are thinkers and feminists. I made better friends. I had a better life.
So, please, do what you want.