Don’t date men who dont do housework/chores until they’re asked.
By that I mean: it is not your responsibility alone to keep track of and manage the household labour and chores.
Do not date someone who expects you to tally and distribute tasks like they’re a child getting chores from their parents.
You should never feel like the parent nagging for chores to be done before playtime in an adult partnership.
There’s a really great comic about this too.
Read the comic.
This genuinely just changed my life.