Many users are reporting massive data loss following the October 2018 Windows 10 update. Personal files are being deleted and hard drives are being corrupted in addition to several performance glitches. Users who have received the update are reporting all of their personal files such as documents, music, pictures, and videos being deleted following the update.
Some people have lost hundreds of gigabytes of data. These files are completely disappearing following the update – they do not wind up in the recycle bin, they are completely gone. Other users are reporting their entire hard drives or SSDs becoming corrupted, making rollback and recovery of said deleted files impossible.
In addition to the file deletion, devices with 6th generation Intel processors and newer are reporting awful battery life and CPU usage following the update.
Long story short, hold off on the October 2018 update for now. There are too many glitches and way too much to lose. If you attempt it,
“Loving To Survive” by Dee L.R. Graham, “Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them” by Susan Forward and Joan Torres, and “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft changed my life and the way I saw my experiences and truly helped me with the healing process so much
I just wanted to thank all the queens who have not been in this situation reblogging these links for women who have overcome or are still living with abusive men and/or for wanting to read them yourself to better understand what/how/why abuse happens and how to support women in abusive relationships and say to every queen reblogging this who has been in the same situation as i have or is still in it that u are so strong and brave and wonderful and i wish u healing, happiness, and love because u are worth all of those things.
“Why Does He Do That?” is often recommended by my favorite columnist, Captain Awkward, so people can recognize potential warning signs of bad relationships.
Really hate how “she thinks she can change a man” is one of the main go to examples when someone wants to talk about how women are stupid bitches who invite abuse, when one of the most common narratives regarding romance/relationships is “man is saved from his troubled ways by the patient love of a Truly Good™ woman.” Women are told that if they truly love him they’ll “stand by your man/be ride or die” and eventually he’ll reward your loyalty, and women who break up with men who refuse to get their shit together are seen as selfish, ice-hearted demons who abandoned their man when he was down, and their cruelty is to blame for him continuing to spiral towards rock bottom. (See: Ariana Grande and Mac Miller)
Women and girls are constantly sold the message that you have to put up with kissing the frog to get a loving prince, but at the same time it’s womankind’s collective failure (and of course, especially the fault of abuse victims themselves) that so many women end up with slimy guys who exploit that narrative
Reminds me of my mom getting remarried several years ago, for about a weekend – dude waited until after the wedding to tell her he expected her at waiting at home with dinner waiting when he finished work.
I dunno, like I get that this version of manhood is “normal” but goddamn is it the most brittle, contemptable fuckin thing
When I was in college, we went to Albuquerque to visit my grandfather. We were just sitting on his patio, chatting, when he randomly looks at me and says, “You should pretend not to be smart so you can get a boyfriend.” I sat there, shocked at what he said, and he turns to my brother and demands, “Aren’t I right?” My brother looked at me all apologetic and goes, “When a girl pretends she’s not smart, I can tell, but I like it anyway because it shows she cares about me.”
My dad was there too. He just sat there, completely silent.
The only thing worse than being lonely is being lonely in a relationship.
Regardless of the numbers on your paycheck or in your bank account, nobody is less than you.
Also most people in NYC are working more than 1 job. I know people living out shelters working 2 jobs.
So the fact that people are working 2 jobs and living in shelters shows that having a job or jobs doesn’t prevent homelessness. So there should still be no superiority complex in these employees.
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