There is no one way to be trans. There isnt one “trans” body. It’s never to late.
And one day, you will get to where you need to be.
I really needed this today. I’m trans nb, leaning toward masculinity, in the early days of contemplating medical transition, and hooooo boy this post is inspiring and beautiful!!!!
Aww scrolling through a bunch of handsome strangers and I get to see the awesome @singhisqueerofficial among them 🙂
AWWW you’re the sweetest 🙏🏾 I didn’t even know this existed! Thank you for tagging me 😭💙💙💙 @muffinly
My dear children, look at all these beautiful men and masculine-aligned individuals! I cannot wait to grow older, to look as handsome as these people. One day, you will all reach your transitional goals, and until then just know I believe in you! –Love, Dad
I have a headcanon that Hermione insists her children attend some primary muggle schooling before Hogwarts, just as she had done. Now, imagine Arthur Weasley attending his grandchild’s science fair, being the ultra proud grandfather….and yet also completely geeking out over absolutely EVERYTHING.
Canon
“That is a volcano, that is a VERY SMALL VOLCANO, how – young lady, how did you make this? Baking soda and food coloring? MARVELOUS!”
whenever i see a baby in public i wish i were like a powerful faerie god mother character who could give the baby a gift like “you’ll never get a cold” or “math will always make sense to you” or something like bein’ great with string instruments but I don’t have any powers that I know of but it doesn’t stop me from trying so every time I see a baby in public I tell the adult with it “what a beautiful baby” and it makes them smile and then I pretend I can take the goodness of their smile and I look at the baby and I think very hard “you will have a good life, even if it’s hard, you will end up happy” and I’m just hopin’ the magic kicks in at some point
faerie: for your service, I will grant you one boon
You can’t turn flirting into a complicated “game” that makes no sense and then throw a hissy fit when some men get confused.
giving minimal attention isn’t complicated lol
As a guy who has no idea how that “game” works, yes it is. Especially when a lot of girls do the “play hard to get” crap. Men aren’t fucking mind readers. My solution though, is rather simple. I’ll take it all at face value. I don’t play that stupid game. You play hard to get? Sorry, I’m gonna play dumb. You can fuck off or just come clean.
I mean, thankfully it doesn’t matter for me because I met my awesome GF and she cared as little for the “game” as I did. But it still annoys me when people play this game and this bitch when a guy gets the wrong idea. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
guess what! emotional attention isn’t flirting!
Guess what! For some girls it is!
You must be real fun at parties
I’m not bad at parties. The way I deal with this kinda shit is I just assume I’m not being flirted with until they make it obvious. I’m not very interested in playing the game so I essentially ignore any attempts to play it. My bigger problem at parties is that I’m not very good at breaking into conversations.
Stop being mad at men for not understanding you’re stupid game. If you don’t want stupid prizes, stop playing stupid games. I think it’s dumb when men play along with games they are unable to know how to play because they can end up getting it wrong, but don’t blame them for trying to play. If they get pissy at you and insult you and shit when they figure out you weren’t flirting then fine (although if you intentionally lead a guy on for attention then fuck you but that’s a different issue), they were wrong. But don’t blame a guy for getting confused.
Basic emotional attention isn’t flirting. not that hard a concept.
Basic emotional attention isn’t flirting. Not that hard a concept.
also i thought of a mini theory on how White pearl got her crack while i was making this. It also goes hand in hand with White Pearl was actually Pink’s theory.
So…. What if white pearl(aka Pink Pearl)’s crack was caused by Pink during one of her tantrums (like how she punched the window in the flashback) and like White, being the gracious goddess of infinite patience for the lil shit gave Pink her pearl (our Pearl) to both keep and eye on her and basically teach her some manners and sit her the fuck down.
