ochakouraraka:

ochakouraraka:

ochakouraraka:

ive said it once and ill say it again but if you live in like . california or another state where lgbt shit is decently accepted please be mindful of the fact that others have it worse than you. Indiana very recently tried to pass laws that allow for same sex couples to be banned from restaurants, in lots of states conversion therapy is still legal, and gay people are still beat for simply existing. think about that please

not to mention in lots of countries its still very much illegal and people are killed for being lgbt

yes this is fine to rb. if u live in a privileged place id appreciate it.

Wait, I just had a sleepy realization: Why the hell are they called Love Triangles when the two Love Interests AREN’T interested in each other, its more like a Love Tug-O-War

gallusrostromegalus:

thebibliosphere:

gallusrostromegalus:

thebibliosphere:

sophies-sideshow:

thebibliosphere:

to-matt-oh:

thebibliosphere:

You’re right and you should say it.

Actual love triangles are polyamorus triads and y’all can quote me on that.

You’re also right and should say it.

Yes see this has always bugged me because a triangle implies both ways at all three points

A polyamory triad: a group of three people involved in a mutual relationship involving all three of them. Almost… a triangle of love… if you will.

A polyamory V or “hinge”: Person x has two partners Y and Z.

Y and Z are aware that X is dating both of them, and are totally down with this arrangement. They are not however interested in each other either sexually or romantically, but may be good friends through their association to X.

Not polyamory:

Two people competing for the affections of one person, who is attracted to both of them but can only choose one. Usually accompanied by unparalleled drama and hurt. So more like a Y really.

As in Y is this toxic shit so God damn prevalent in romance and YA fic, urgh.

Personally, I’m really excited in the research being done in literary polyamory, esp by the likes of Joy and other queer romance authors, and hope that the romantic hypercube may become a reality in my lifetime.

Phangs was started as a direct challenge to bring down the toxic love triangle trope. That and my unhealthy inability to shy away from pun based challenges and vampires in general.

I know this, and I love you, you’re an inspiration.

Literally, I started publishing short stories here because of you.

Random Moon Sign Facts

astroarchetypes:

Aries Moon: finds it hard to be tied to one person for a long time but tries hard to be honest about this

Taurus Moon: have a certain quality of stillness and peace that others find soothing

Gemini Moon: likes to learn from home and explore topics of interest with friends and family more than strangers or classmates

Cancer Moon: possibly unknown to even their closest friends and family, they’re very romantic at their core

Leo Moon: hates to lose face and will always try to preserve their pride

Virgo Moon: high achievers; the kid that usually ends up tutoring everyone else 

Libra Moon: very eloquent and good at saying the right thing at the right time

Scorpio Moon: they have innate sex appeal regardless of what they look like

Sagittarius Moon: amazing sense of humor

Capricorn Moon: tend to have very good bone structure 

Aquarius Moon: growing up, they were probably somehow much different than everyone else

Pisces Moon: have a humanitarian spirit that manages to connect with just about everybody